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Victory #1: Philadelphia 76ers Honor PCV Foster Care Parents
Presbyterian Children's Village nominated two of its foster care parents for the
"Hometown Hero Award" from the Philadelphia 76ers, and the 76ers agreed with our choice!
These deserving foster parents, among many with whom the Village works, received
recognition at the 76ers home game on January 21, 2008.
"Aunt" Jesse and "Uncle" Mike have been foster parents with
the Village for over two years. Because she herself had been a foster child,
Jesse knows what it is like to grow up in the "system." With a special fondness
for children who are difficult to place, Jesse and Mike are currently working with
the Village as Treatment Foster Parents for four children. The children, all 13- and 14-year-old
boys, present a number of behavioral challenges at home and school, including trouble
with respecting authority figures and histories of fighting, stealing, and lying.
The boys have been through several unsuccessful placements and were looking for a place to call "home."
Aunt Jesse says, "The children need consistent, no nonsense, supportive caregivers who are
willing to love them unconditionally, to let them know that, no matter what they do or
have done, they have the right to be kids and to live life to its fullest. What is more
important is that we have lived up to our word and the boys are all feeling safe, cared
for, and are a real part of this family. We love each child as if he were our own."
The couple comments that they have the "best team," referring to the PCV social workers
and therapists who are involved in their children's lives. It is clear that, through
the hard-work and support of foster parents such as Jesse and Mike, children who have
been through extreme challenges in their lives can learn to feel accepted and loved as
important family members. PCV is privileged to have parents like Jesse and Mike as an
integral part of the Treatment Foster Care Team and considers them real winners!
Victory #2: Union League's Good Citizenship Award
The Good Citizenship Award, presented by the Union League of Philadelphia, has always carried
with it a special recognition of good citizenship in youth and the promise of future leadership
development both in business and professional endeavors.
Each year, with the help of 53 selected youth agencies, 290 young men and women are named to
receive the League's Good Citizenship Award. The youth are chosen without regard to race,
color, creed, gender, or political background, but must have demonstrated marked evidence of
good citizenship.
In 2007, Presbyterian Children's Village was proud to announce that SCOH (Services for Children
in their Own Homes) program student, Natalie, received a Good Citizenship Award and is on her
way to becoming an outstanding young leader in her community.
Fifteen years old and in the tenth grade, Natalie attends West Philadelphia High School and
is an honor student achieving A's and B's. Winning this award enables Natalie to apply for
the Union League College Scholarship during her senior in high school through the Scholarship
Foundation of the Union League of Philadelphia. Always thinking ahead, she is already preparing
for college by enrolling in the SAT prep course. Additionally, Natalie is pursuing an internship
at Fox Chase Cancer Research Institute and is interested in a career in prenatal nursing. Annually,
through the financial support of Youth Work, 25 applicants receive grants of $1,000 which can be
renewed each year for a maximum grant of $4,000.
Victory #3: Compassion + Persistence = A Second Chance
Derek had never really known the meaning of "home." When he was 7, he began years of out-of-home placements due to his family’s inability to care for him as a result of their own mental health issues and addictions. He spent the next 8 years moving from group home to group home, never spending more than 2 years in any one place. Derek was a sad and angry youth, and the only way he knew to express his feelings was through being verbally and physically aggressive and non-compliant with the rules. With serious emotional and behavioral problems, Derek was NOT a good candidate for a foster home.
At age 15, and after bouncing from facility to facility, he finally was brought to the Residential Treatment Program at the Village. Derek had a rough beginning. He struggled with depression, which disturbed his sleep cycle and made it difficult for him to function during the day. He was noncompliant with even the most basic rules and lacked the ability to use words to express his feelings, instead resorting to destroying his school uniforms and his own belongings. He let the adults know just how angry he was with his lot in life. Understandably, he didn't trust anyone.
But the Village staff would not give up. His psychiatrist worked to adjust his medications, and his depression began to lift. The staff provided him with intensive therapeutic counseling in an educational setting and a structured, safe, predictable environment. He was able to concentrate in school and his grades improved. Slowly, he began to trust a few people. Through group counseling and individual therapy, he learned safer and more acceptable ways to express his feelings. For the very first time, Derek felt safe enough to talk about his many losses and how much he missed having a family.
Derek was encouraged by his team members to think about his future and where he'd like to live. He did research with his social worker on group homes and foster care. He decided that what he really wanted was a family!
With Derek's improved mood and behavior, Derek was able to achieve the highest behavioral level in the Residential program. His social worker identified and contacted a former child care worker who visited with Derek and took him off campus for cookouts and movies. Because of his progress in treatment, moving to a Foster Care home became a reality. With the help of caring Village staff to reclaim his life, Derek developed REAL goals: having a family and becoming a fashion designer.
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